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Summer Rhythm

I often think of rhythm as the webbing that holds are weeks together. Without sending children to school and without working a consistant schedule, I find that having a strong home rhythm is even more important.

 

We generally use meal times as our rhythm anchors. Our rhythm hasn’t changed much since the fall, which I am very grateful for but it will very soon since I’m 38 weeks today! I’m eager to see how our little Gavin fits into the rhythm and how it will need to be adjusted for his needs. I find that the beautiful thing about rhythm rather than routine, it can ebb and flow to fit our lives.

 

When you are reading this, please note that these times are fairly flexible.

 

 

~ 7:00 Morning Rhythm

 

Lydia wakes up. I have been trying to have a little art “invitation to play” set up for her. She loves it. I also usually give her a tiny serving of fresh fruit to hold her over until I make breakfast. I prep this the night before so it is super simple.

 

We begin with bit of outdoor playtime, lately straight for the sandbox, sidewalk chalk or pool. She tends to stay close to the house in the early morning.

 

Breakfast- We still do a variation of eggs almost everyday for breakfast. Lydia sometimes requests oatmeal or yogurt so I accommodate those easy requests. I make our lunch smoothies while I am already in the kitchen.

 

After breakfast, we naturally settle in to read books while I have a little more coffee.

 

Then it is free-play, usually indoors, but these summer months pull us outside too. This is when I do household chores like laundry.

~10:00 Morning Adventure

 

I have been blessed with friends and an incredible play-based community. This lends itself from doing great developmental exploring any day of the week. I have been trying to be very mindful about what we agree to join in on. I look at proximity, time outside, child-led interest and my own enjoyment.

 

Mondays- Home Day

Tuesdays- “Mom Mom” time. Lydia spends the morning with my mom.

Wednesdays- Roots+Wings Playschool

Thursday- Home Day

Friday- Playdate, usually at a local coffee shop with a playground!

 

We have snack time during our morning adventure. This is usually fresh fruit and some type of nut or seed.

~12:30 Lunch

We try to get home from our adventures for lunch most days. I could push it and keep us out longer, but the flow of our afternoon works so much better when we are back by 12:30 or 1:00pm.

 

Lunch is smoothies and often something crunchy like crackers to satisfy our snacky needs. I keep a big basket of library books in our dining room so they don’t get mixed up with our other books. We read these while she eats.

 

We usually do lunch at the dining room table. In the summer, we tend to gather on the porch though.

 

~1:00 Quiet Time

My daughter doesn’t nap anymore but this post-lunch time remains very dear to my heart. She plays quietly in the room and reads stories with me.  Once in awhile, if she isn’t sleeping and I feel like she needs some shut off time, she watches a show.

 

I often have the white noise machine going at this time. We have one that has a timer, so after some quiet play, if I need a break, I set the timer and she knows she has to stay in her room until it turns off.

 

Potty Training hint: Put a mini potty in the room to stop the “neeeeeed” to come out of the room to go.

 

~3:00 Free Play

Our afternoons remain our free play time at home. We explore in the backyard, create art in the playroom and just bop around. Generally this is a two hour time block, even in the summer heat or the winter cold. This is when I tend to the garden, clean up the yard and water plants.

~5:00 Dinner Prep

I retreat the the kitchen to prep dinner. Lydia often helps me with this prep or plays with play dough or draws at her little bench right by the kitchen.

 

Lately she has been into audio books. I put on a story for her from Spotify, get out a book that matches the story and pull out a felt set that matches the story. She loves this and will often listen to fairy tales 3 or 4 times while I finish dinner prep. I try to clean all the dishes that I can while I go so after dinner clean up goes fast.

 

This is part of the day that I know will be harder with a newborn. Ayy!

 

~5:30 Dinner

We gather, as a family, at the dinner table.  She sits and chats with my husband and I at the dinner table until she is full. After awhile, she is free to go play in the playroom, directly off our dining room, while we remain at the table.

 

~6:00 Family Time

Kitchen clean up. Playroom clean up. Family playtime or stroller walk.

 

~6:30 Bedtime Routine

Sometimes she hops in the shower or bath, depending on her level of dirt.  But it is always brush teeth, books then bed. We do about twenty minutes of reading and then its time for her to go to bed.

Happy 2nd Birthday, Lydia Grace

“A love of Nature, implanted so early that it will seem to them hereafter to have been born in them, will enrich their lives with pure interests, absorbing pursuits, health, and good humour” — Charlotte Mason, Volume 1

On the week of your second birthday, I was brought to tears as you splashed around the lake. You see, you have taught me to cherish these little moments.

 

The delight that you find with each splash, the fascination of the leaves floating away, the gritty sensation of the mud sand in your hands and the pure satisfaction of a cold slice of watermelon on a summer day….

You get life.

You get that the simple pleasures of spending time with family in nature is what it is all about.

So I pray that you will always remember these little adventures, if not the actual memories, than the feeling of comfort and happiness that being out in the sunshine made you feel.

And I pray that if you ever get lost in life, remember that nature is your home. I am your home. And we both are here for you.

Happy second birthday, sweet Lydia Grace.


Nature Play: Part One

Spring is in the air and I’m craving barefoot walking through the grass, Sangria on the porch and the excitement of little toddlers discovering a new experience in nature. I will be doing a four part series in the month of March on the subject of nature.

This week is an introduction to a primary text from Charlotte Mason (volume 6) on nature study. Her sincere belief in time outside is beautiful:

“It is infinitely well worth the mother’s while to take some pains every day to secure in the first place, that her children spend hours daily amongst rural and natural objects; and, in the second place, to infuse into them, or rather, to cherish in them, the love of investigation…

(FAQ: But how do you stop them from eating the dirt? A: You don’t. I mean you can tell them no and redirect all day long, but the truth is that they are learning. Obviously try not to allow them to eat mouthfuls but a little dirt probably won’t hurt them. In fact, some believe that small traces in the bacteria in dirt actually helps children.More to come on this topic another day..) (FAQ: What do you do with her outside all day? A: Follow her lead. Let her explore and discover the world around her. Sometimes I offer “Toy prompts” like this large metal cooking pot. But very often, I just let her use her imagination. You don’t need a bunch of activities outside to reap the benefits. In fact, I would argue that by not providing many objects outside of nature’s gifts, you are giving your child the opportunity to learn in the most authentic way)

The child who learns his science from a text-book, though he go to Nature for illustrations, and he who gets his information from objects lessons, has no chance of forming relations with things as they are, because this kindly obtrusive teacher makes him believe that to know about things is the same as knowing them personally…

Let them once get in touch with nature and a habit is formed which will be a source of delight and habit through life…”

Charlotte Mason, Volume 6

She stumbles. She stands.

It only seems fitting that Lydia began walking last week. It was a week of change and forward movement for all. We moved to South Carolina. It took a leap of faith, mindful consideration and a whole lot of leaning on family to get us through the transition time, but we are here.

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And just as my husband and I are learning our way in a new town, Lydia is literally taking steps forward.

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As I sat with my coffee this morning, I couldn’t help but to smile at the beautiful lessons in her steps. She stumbles. She stands. She stumbles. She laughs. She stumbles. She looks to family for reassurance. She stumbles. She keeps trying.

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The move up here was based on family settling in the area and our strong belief in raising children by family. (OK, and the mountains were calling us…) After a great deal of thought, we decided to rent up here in order to learn the town better. We feel so blessed to have found a beautiful cottage based rental community just fifteen minutes from town. The walking trails are gorgeous and they have this perfect little pecan orchard on our morning walk. One of my favorite quotes is by Henry Wadsworth, ” And early morning walk is a blessing for the whole day.” We made it a family mission to walk each morning together. It has been a wonderful change of pace to have my husband and pups join us for our morning adventure. Walks have always been a really special time for my husband and I, and to cherish these walks with each other, “The Biscuit” and our family, is just a dream come true.

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Also… the start up bug is running strong in my blood. I’ve been working hard to listen to other lately. To hear what they are saying. To feel what they are feeling. And to think how they are thinking. It has been a wonderful practice for my mind and my soul. It is always guiding me to my next venture. How lucky I am to constantly be learning from all of you.

 

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